Holding my phone in solitude after a very powerful service, I'm feeling one thing. Love. Not some fuzzy feeling in my stomach for one physically attractive male, a mental peace, sense of belonging. The church is an asylum, not a Pharisee retreat center. Our churches are full of self righteous people who'd kick you down…
Emotional make up.
Before I talk about depression or the addiction that shackled me in the past years, let me explain the gag I wore. Make up is dirt. But what about emotional make up? If you met me especially in Uni you'd know me to be someone who didn't care much about life and had almost no…
Shit to Shine?
I found love,finally. In a place I never thought I would. In a place I had only known pain and judgment. In the one place I didn't belong. I have found a family. A peace like never before. A resting place. And I can't wait to tell you about it. Before I say anything, I…
Mon Cher Sucre Pere
Love,money,sex and morals. These seem to be the three pillars people stand on in their decisions pertaining to relationships and the opposite sex. It's often said that people know what they want with you within five minutes of meeting you. Obviously not long term. But the bottom line is, a smash or pass decision only…
365 days,
What makes me me? One swoop of your eyes over me and I'm just an averagely tall girl, slightly overweight and with an extremely bloated midsection. But that's who I am, who are you? Who do you know yourself to be? Sometimes we create images of how we want to look in other people's eyes.…
Complains of a submissive.
(Based on Sophie Morgan's Diary Of a Submissive. Contents of this post are entirely fictional.) If you know me personally, you'd have been surprised I did eight posts without talking about sex. Well, today's your lucky day. The first thing to say is I'm not a pervert. No more than everyone else. And my definition…
Bliss?
Hope is what drives us when life is hard. Faith is what keeps us hoping in the first place. We often seem to forget to savor the moments in life forgetting that life, life isn't forever. Existence maybe, but life as we know know it, the earth, has an expiry date. And us, humans, are…
Once upon a lie
Disney fucked us all. I don't have any content today so I'm just going to do an "expose" on our Disney faves versus the original Authors versions. Warning, this will mar your childhood. Let's start with the Brothers Grimm. The Grimm brothers gave us classics like little Red Riding hood, Snow White, Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty,…
Our Independence is meaningless…
"We have awakened. We will not sleep anymore. Today, from now on, there is a new Africa in the world!" The last sentence in Dr Nkrumahs famous independence speech. I wish I could post the whole speech, but that would be plagiarism or some sort of unoriginality. Dr Kwame Nkrumah proclaimed a new Africa before…
Consensual rape *question mark*
Today's post is sexual. All sex. You're smiling, to your disappointment, well unless you're a rapist or have strange fetishes this won't get you off. I just want you to think about sex. What IS sex? A consensual act between two human beings regardless of gender or age. Well of course, both parties have to…
Panera Bread 